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Matt Adams's avatar

Great piece Brianne! I do meditate regularly. I find the key is having a time of day that works well, and a regular spot to go to. This takes planning out of the equation and it just becomes more automatic. I probably have advantages as a single person with no kids. Ie. it might be a bit easier to find time/space. I do live with my parents currently, but I wait until they’ve gone to bed, and I have a favourite spot in the family room I go to. I have fallen out of my exact meditation routine recently with my brother and three kids visiting for two weeks. And I’ve had lots of big emotions that I end up trying to give space to at night. I also suffer from insomnia a bit, but I’ve started to listen to a yoga nidra meditation the past few nights in bed, which seems to be helping. In terms of the effects, it’s probably hard to truly say. It definitely hasn’t made me into a willpower machine haha. However, I do find it’s a great way to help regulate my emotions, and take care of myself. I find that my relationship with myself is growing through regular practice, and that is a good thing. I try to mainly stick to more zen like meditation of a still mind and releasing thoughts, which I learned through centering prayer. However, I always use the space to pray at times when I need to, as I am a person of faith as well. But I do find meditation most beneficial when I spend a solid twenty minutes in the zen mode. I feel most refreshed that way and it is truly a spiritual experience when I sink deeply into it. There have been times when I set a timer, which can be a good way to start getting into to it, even just a few min at a time. Now I can comfortably sit for forty min or so without a timer, but it’s not really a competition- I simply enjoy it that much!

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Michelle Spencer (she/her)'s avatar

Great links. The aquifer situation is terrifying because I've read a similar issue exists here in Australia. Meditation? I succeeded at mostly regular meditation (after a false start or two) by using Headspace app. Been at it now since 2017, helped by several life stressors which made me very motivated to start with. I recently was encouraged to do breathwork. I use a modified box breathing technique: in for 4, hold for 4, out for 6, hold for 4. Its designed to calm your parasympathetic nervous system. I noticed when I drove or had difficult conversations I would hold my breath, and began to consciously exhale. That got me interested. My exercise physiologist says breathwork benefits are dose dependent, and 20 minutes is the validated dose. I don't have kids, so that helps with finding time. Its part of my rest practice now, essential with ME/CFS. Letting go of expecting to be good at meditation or for anything to happen really made the difference, which is what the Headspace app did for me. Whatever gets you there, I guess. Plain knitting was nearly as good, and I still count is as meditation if I don't ruminate.

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